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Emotional Health Digest
September 2006 |
Gerry Fisher, LICSW Arlington, MA (781) 929-6341 gfisher-LICSW@comcast.net http://www.gerryfisher.com/ |
As a life consultant, I
specialize in helping people to make the inner shifts necessary to get unstuck and achieve
their goals. As part of this work, I keep up to date on the latest
research on happiness and emotional well being. Please pass this
along to friends, relatives, and coworkers. And, if one of these
summaries inspires you, I'd love to hear from
you!
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A man
of genius makes no
mistakes. His errors are volitional and are portals to
discovery.
--James Joyce |
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British serious about taking
kids off antidepressants
The November/December 2005
issue of the Psychotherapy Networker states that the National
Institute for Clinical Excellence (NICE), which issues guidelines for Britain's
National
Health Service, issued a
statement saying, "Antidepressant medication should not be used for the initial
treatment of children and young people with mild
depression."
In the United States, in response to concerns
about the link between a few antidepressants and suicidal thoughts in
children, there has been a 20% drop in prescription rates for young
people. The drop in Britain is even steeper. The article states that
the British may be giving more weight to the research showing that certain
therapies and exercise are as effective as medications. NICE
recommends a minimum of 3 months of psychotherapy.
I currently work with two young adults: one who replaces medical-based counseling
with our work, and one who uses our work as an adjunct to counseling in
the medical community.Contact me
for more
information about how life consulting can contribute to a healthier lifestyle and increased
self esteem. |
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Gilbert's latest book: Stumbling on
Happiness
The May 20, 2006 edition of the Boston Globe included
an article about the book, Stumbling on Happiness, written by Harvard
psychologist Daniel Gilbert. Gilbert's research finds that, generally,
people are poor predictors of what will make them happy in the
future.
In general, Gilbert finds that
people overestimate the effect of hedonic (pleasure giving) aspects of
future events. He examined notions regarding voting, falling in love,
sporting events, medical results, and so on. Another major finding was almost
universal denial of the first point. Gilbert says, "You can't think of a
job or car or marriage as putting you in a state of happiness for the rest
of your life."
Although the book is not a self-help
book, the Globe author pressed Gilbert: from a research point of
view, what can people do to be happier. Gilbert responds, "Stop
working so hard to earn money, and spend more time with family and
friends...It's also clear that one of the best predictors of happiness is
the extent and goodness of social networks." The article states that it
appears that people don't want to hear that answer. Gilbert explains, "We
want a quick fix and we want something exotic. We want unhappiness to be
cured like an infection. It's not going to happen."
I
feel very proud that, as a life consultant, I am able to accompany
people on the journey of creating a happy life. Whether helping people improve
their financial standing, find a compatible partner, make a career change,
or some other personal project, I help people to develop the inner
approach needed to avoid postponing happiness and to enjoy life's journey
every step of the way. If you're ready to work on your own personal
project of living happily, contact
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Review: Treating anxiety and
sleep disorders
The December 2005 edition
of the Harvard Mental Health Letter provides an overview for the
latest thinking in the treatment of anxiety and sleep
disorders:
For references used by this newsletter, follow this
link.
I apply a sophisticated
form of cognitive-behavioral work when I consult with clients about
shifting their inner approaches to their lives. Contact me if
you are interested in applying cognitive-behavioral techniques to sleep or
anxiety problems. |
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The greatest remedy for anger is
delay.
--Lucius Annaeus Seneca |
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Who is in charge of your thinking?
The May & June 2006 issue of AARP: The
Magazine includes an article on self-help guru Byron Katie's approach
to zapping self destructive thoughts and stress with a method she calls
"The work." Her underlying premise is: All suffering is optional.
Now 63, Katie divorced her husband at 33, and
she slipped into a downward plunge of rage, paranoia, suicidal depression,
morbid obesity, and agoraphobia. One night, while in residential treatment
for mental illness, she realized that her own thinking was causing her
misery, and she engaged herself in courageous self-examination by asking
and answering four direct questions. She left the treatment center at 43
and never looked back. Here are four questions you can ask about any
painful thought:
When I help people to develop inner approaches
that feel better, increase motivation, and help people to be more flexible
as they work toward goals, an early step involves teaching clients that
they control their thoughts, not the other way around. (Alcoholics
Anonymous has a wonderful saying, "Why let that notion live rent free in
your head?") For more information, check out Katie's latest book,
I Need Your Love—Is that True, or contact me for
information about how life consultation can put you back in charge of your
life. |
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Research suggests: "follow your
gut!"
The February 17th, 2006
edition of the Boston Globe reviewed preliminary research
findings published in a recent edition of the Science
journal, which suggests that it may be more effective to "follow your gut"
with big decisions than to go strictly by the Pros
and Cons.
Ap Kijksterhuis, a
professor of psychology at the University of Amsterdam summarizes his
research by suggesting that you gather all information about an important
decision, review the information, and then set it aside for a
while. Ultimately, when it comes time to make a decision, go with
what feels right. (For simpler decisions, the rational Pros and Cons
approach works just fine.) The research is validating other
studies that seem to indicate that the subconscious
mind is "smart," and that it continues to think things through, even
when you are not consciously aware of
any thinking going on. This type of subconscious thinking appears to
be particularly helpful for major decisions that are so complex
that they cannot be efficiently processed in the conscious
mind.
The researchers said that more study is
necessary. "Like any great paper," said Timothy Wilson, psychology
professor at the University of Virginia, "it raises more questions than it
answers." |
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Quote The greatest reward from your working
is not what you get from it but what you become by
it.
--Sydney Harris |