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Emotional Health Digest
October 2006 |
Gerry Fisher, LICSW Arlington, MA (781) 929-6341 gfisher-LICSW@comcast.net http://www.gerryfisher.com/ |
As a life consultant, I
specialize in helping people to make the inner shifts necessary to get unstuck and achieve
their goals. As part of this work, I keep up to date on the latest
research on happiness and emotional well being. Please pass this
along to friends, relatives, and coworkers. And, if one of these
summaries inspires you, I'd love to hear from
you!
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Quote
The definition
of insanity is doing
the same thing over and over again, expecting different
results.
--Rita Mae Brown |
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We all should be exercising more
(Part 1)
The December 2005 issue of
the Harvard Mental Health Letter reviews several studies that show
that regular physical activity is associated with improvement in clinical
depression
and anxiety, mild to
moderate depression symptoms, insomnia, and resilience under stress. Also, people who remain
physically fit are less likely to develop clinical
depression.
One recent study compared five groups of people
with mild to moderate depression: two doing a rigorous exercise program,
two doing a lighter workout program, and one doing stretching and
flexibility exercises. All groups experienced improvement. The
rigorous-exercise groups experienced a reduction in symptoms (a 47% drop on
average) comparable to the best results of both medication and
cognitive-behavioral psychotherapy. Another study showed that positive
results do not depend on a type of exercise, only that the exercise
program last at least 2 months.
The article goes on to discuss that we don't
really know why exercise eases these symptoms, or whether exercise is the
result of symptoms being reduced or the other way around (people whose
symptoms abate are more likely to exercise).
In my consulting work, I have found that helping
people to get up off the couch, to maintain focus over time, and to work
effectively on personal projects decreases depression and anxiety
symptoms. People feel better when they are actively taking charge of
one or more personal projects. Contact me
for information about how life consultation can get you moving,
achieving, and loving life again. To read the references for this article,
click here, and look for the references of Working Off
Depression. |
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Dads may experience postpartum
depression too
An 8/10/2006 article on the
CNN website reported on the results of a study by Dr. James F. Paulson of
more than 5,000 U.S. couples that had recently had a baby. The study
revealed that 14% of mothers and 15% of fathers
were found to have significant levels of depression.
(The percentage of women correlates to past research on postpartum depression in
mothers.)
Depressed fathers played with their babies less,
and the wives of depressed fathers read less often to their babies.
Singing, reading, and playing with a baby are very important
interactions for the development of the baby.
In my work with individuals and couples, I
emphasize envisioning a way of living that would be pleasant to them,
and then working strategically toward that vision. My area of
expertise is in helping people to work with their inner approaches to
the situation (in this case, to parenting a newborn) that result in
feeling stuck or depressed. Contact me for more
information about my approach, or see the "My approach" page of my website. | |
If at first your work isn't
fun...try, try again!
The March 5th edition of
The Boston Globe published the article If you can do more,
try a few careers until you're sure. The article describes the
notion of a "portfolio career," as defined
ten years ago by the British management guru Charles
Handy.
The idea is to do several types of meaningful
work that, together, fulfill you and pay the bills; it is not the same as
holding down three bad jobs and wishing you could figure out what to do
with yourself.
An example of someone living with this new type
of career is Aaron Karo. He performs stand-up comedy in sold-out,
local, Boston shows, and he also bills himself as a public speaker and
sit-com actor. Working this way has been the norm for Karo. After college,
he went to work for an investment bank. At the same time, he wrote a
weekly newsletter on college life, which eventually led to a book deal.
Karo's summary of how to do it? "You've got to do it on the side.
Diversify your revenue streams. Do what you're passionate about."
This new type of career choice may mix
employment with an organization and self-employment, often involving
several skilled professional jobs. You can also mix in some volunteer work
or learning work with fee-based work.
As someone who writes software documentation in
between managing his life-consultation practice, I could really relate to
this article. It is this type of "out of the box" thinking that I like to
do with my many clients who work with me on career decisions and
satisfaction. Contact me for more
information about my method of career consultation. |
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The
last of human freedoms: The ability to choose one's
attitude in a given set of
circumstances.
--Victor Frankl |
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Are
gay parents good for children?
The January/February issue
of the Psychotherapy Networker
reviewed some of the leading
researchers on both sides of the issue of gay parenting.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), which
is the established organization of pediatricians, states that there should
be no barriers to gay-parent adoption and custody. Their recommendations
are based on the 2002 review of research by Tufts University professor
Ellen Perrin, who says, "There is no good evidence that same-sex parents
are any less fit than heterosexual parents, and some of them may provide
subtle advantages." She continues, "It isn't the sexual identity of
the parents that matters: it's things like how well the parents get along,
how integrated the kids are in school—the same social factors that matter
to all kids."
The article also cites objections raised by the
American College of Pediatricians (whose mission statement says that it
"recognizes the inherent value of both a father and a mother") and Paul
Cameron, Chairman of the Family Research Institute (Cameron has been
reprimanded by his professional organization for publishing misleading
research, and his articles are published in one journal that is not
peer-reviewed and that publishes articles when paid by the author to do
so).
As in any debate, it is helpful to read the
fine-print about any "expert" or organization that attempts to influence
public discourse on controversial topics. |
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Really, we all should be exercising more! (Part
2)
The July/August 2006 issue of the AARP
magazine contains more information about the health benefits
of regular exercise in the article 7 Reasons to Get Off the Couch
Already! The article reminds us that researchers are continuing to
find new benefits for those who exercise. For example, did you know that
regular exercise decreases pain in people with arthritis? Or that
women who exercise experience far fewer hot flashes than those who don't?
(I didn't!)
Here are the seven reasons to get off the
couch:
In my experience, people's
internal approaches to their lives and their health determine how capable they are of
implementing an effective exercise routine. Life consultation with me helps
you to adjust your inner approach, making any personal project more
do-able and manageable. Contact me for more
information.
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Quote These men are forced into their strange fancies
by attempting to measure the whole universe by means of their tiny
scale.
--Galileo Galilei |